Advice: Mean Girls

So...today I wanted to talk to a girl. THE "mean girl"! She got on my nerves today because she has made a few rude remarks regarding a girls weight. This makes me mad because many girls at my school are very self-concuss. This "mean girl" also dosent eat very much at school and neither do her friends. So why she made  this comment I do not know. I decided after a little while that there was no reason to talk to her because she was still going to be the "mean girl" no matter what.

My advice to you this week is to Stay True to Yourself.

 Look in the mirror, right now. Is the reflection happy? Is it "stupid", "ugly", "fat"? If it is any of the last 3, its not ok. Girls are different. Sometimes because of genetics we are small/larger than other girls. When you look in the mirror you should feel happy because that person is you. It shouldn't be the "popular" girl, and it shouldn't look like every other girl in your school. Don't try to be like everyother girl in your school.

 The clique in my school is quite alike. Many of the girls are followers. There is one "queen" and then her "workers". The "queen" starts rumors and then the "workers" spread them. If you are in a clique think about the girls who aren't in your clique. Do you tend to leave the same girl out alot? Do you pick on another group of girls? If you do think about those who are hurt by your words or actions.

Remember that being yourself is the key to being popular. People won't like you because your like everyone else. People will like you for you.

So the next time that the "mean girl" says something, brush it off. You can't let her rule the way you live. It only matters what you think about yourself.

The lyrics to the following song are inspirational. The UK band One Direction sings it. They are my Favorite Band Ever!!!!!!

From Left to Right: Niall Horan, Louis Tomlinson, Harry Styles, Zayn Malik, and Liam Payne.

"What Makes You Beautiful"

[Verse 1]
[Liam]
You're insecure,
Don't know what for,
You're turning heads when you walk through the door,
Don't need make-up,
To cover up,
Being the way that you are is enough,

[Bridge]
[Harry]
Everyone else in the room can see it,
Everyone else but you,

[Chorus]
[All]
Baby you light up my world like nobody else,
The way that you flip your hair gets me overwhelmed,
But when you smile at the ground it ain't hard to tell,
You don't know,
Oh oh,
You don't know you're beautiful,
If only you saw what I can see,
You'll understand why I want you so desperately,
Right now I'm looking at you and I can't believe,
You don't know,
Oh oh,
You don't know you're beautiful,
Oh oh,
That's what makes you beautiful

[Verse 2]
[Zayn]
So c-come on,
You got it wrong,
To prove I'm right,
I put it in a song,
I don't know why,
You're being shy,
And turn away when I look into your eye eye eyes,

[Bridge]
[Harry]
Everyone else in the room can see it,
Everyone else but you,

[Chorus]
[All]
Baby you light up my world like nobody else,
The way that you flip your hair gets me overwhelmed,
But when you smile at the ground it ain't hard to tell,
You don't know,
Oh oh,
You don't know you're beautiful,
If only you saw what I can see,
You'll understand why I want you so desperately,
Right now I'm looking at you and I can't believe,
You don't know,
Oh oh,
You don't know you're beautiful,
Oh oh,
That's what makes you beautiful

Na Na Na Na Na Na Naaa,
Na Na Na Na Na Na Na Na [x2]

[Middle 8]
[Harry]
Baby you light up my world like nobody else,
The way that you flip your hair gets me overwhelmed,
But when you smile at the ground it ain't hard to tell,
You don't know,
Oh oh,
You don't know you're beautiful,

[Chorus]
[All]
Baby you light up my world like nobody else,
The way that you flip your hair gets me overwhelmed,
But when you smile at the ground it ain't hard to tell,
You don't know,
Oh oh,
You don't know you're beautiful ([Zayn:] Oh),
If only you saw what I can see,
You'll understand why I want you so desperately ([Harry:] Desperately),
Right now I'm looking at you and I can't believe,
You don't know,
Oh oh,
You don't know you're beautiful,
Oh oh,
You don't know you're beautiful,
Oh oh,

[Harry]
That's what makes you beautiful